In certain times of my life, I have felt left behind. Sometimes this worries me, especially if there is a palpable goal and others are clearly attaining it. I've fretted over people moving away, more out of envy than concern, and felt the stomach ache that comes from knowing you will be the only one that hasn't completed a project or assignment on time.
Yet every so often, being left behind has been a blessing, and in fact, I find myself falling behind on purpose as my priorities shift and the value of the here and now is greater than what everyone seems to be striving for. It's not about falling out of the rat race, or leaving it all behind. It's about that small "click" that happens in your thinking when you realize that if you achieve a goal tomorrow or next week, or even next month, that's perfectly okay with you. Not only is it okay, but your life is that much better for the opportunity to spend more time in the present, for not focusing on the future.
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